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Gratitude with Breakfast, Lunch & Dinner

Mealtime is a great opportunity to practice gratitude. Not just for yourself, but as a way to build community and connect with those you share your food with. When we share gratitude with one another, it brings us closer together. We begin to understand what makes each other feel joy and appreciation. And we can create and share those feelings. Its good vibes all around!

I always use dinnertime as a chance to pause and reflect on what I’m grateful for, whether I’m alone, with my family or with friends. I typically ask: “what three things are you most grateful for in your life right now?” What brings your joy? What is going well in your life? What is there to celebrate? What makes you feel lucky or fortunate? Can you be appreciative for this meal? To be fed and have consistent access to good, nourishing food? To not have to worry about going hungry?

While we often have SO MUCH to be grateful for in our lives, how often do we actively reflect on and pay attention to that feeling? Appreciation can fall to the wayside, but we can conjure it back up with a simple reflection like this. It only takes a few moments to incorporate gratitude into your day, and mealtime is a great checkpoint to try it out. Chances are it will bring you closer to those around you, brighten your day, if only a little bit (and maybe A LOT A BIT), and will at least make your meal more enjoyable.

The Hunger Fullness Scale

The Hunger-Fullness Scale

Written by Jonathan “Quiggy” Quigg

Its really easy, in our busy day and age, to just gobble, zone out or multi-task when we are eating. This leaves us disconnected from our bodies and unaware of what our biological signals may be trying to tell us. Intuitive eating is an approach designed to reconnect us with our bodies, based on the premise that all the sensors we need to navigate our nutritional choices are built within. We just need to learn to pay attention to and use them again. Many of us do this, well, intuitively. But paying more explicit attention to our biological signals can create a happier relationship with food that energizes us. And more energy = smarter study and better play.

One of the great tools of Intuitive Eating is the hunger-fullness scale. Often, we eat just because its meal time, because we are bored or stressed, or because we THINK we are hungry – even when we are really not. The hunger-fullness scale helps us connect with our ACTUAL hunger levels, by feeling into the sensations in our body and giving it a rating on a scale of 1-10.

If I were to describe the scale for myself (and its subjective, so your ratings will have their own meanings unique to you) for your reference:

1 – VERY, VERY hungry – Energy level is LOW. Irritable. HANGRY.

2 – REALLY hungry – hunger pangs, tummy is really speaking to me here.

3 – hungry – hunger pangs starting to happen.

4 – “eh I could probably eat”

5 is neutral

6 –starting to feel my stomach expand

7 – comfortably full

8 – more full than I’d like to be. Baby belly poking out here.

9 – Wayyy too full. Uncomfortable. Lethargic.

10- Thanksgiving day

I suggest taking a moment to check in and rank your hunger level BEFORE you get food. That way you know how much to ask for. Once its on our plate, our eyes are often bigger than our stomachs. But if we are already taking in information from our body, we can make decisions more in tune with our actual hunger level.

Check in periodically during your meal and at the end to see how full you get. Mostly, we want to stay in between 3-7 on the scale, never getting too hungry or too full. This will keep us optimally fueled, comfortable and ready for activities!

Love the Whole Foods that Love You Back

By Jonathan “Quiggy” Quigg

This is one of the better mantras I’ve picked up over years working with health and wellness programs. If we are talking about making food choices that are good for our body, make us feel satisfied and energized, and digest naturally, whole foods are where its at. What is a whole food? Its anything that comes naturally from the earth and is unprocessed. Fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, seeds, whole grains, meat, fish and eggs are all examples of whole foods, at their core. The way they are cooked can affect the level of processing, but in general these types of foods offer us all the nutrients that our bodies need to survive and thrive. A diet centered around these types of food is likely to make you feel pretty good.

On the other hand, processed foods are those that have been broken down or manipulated. Even if derived from a whole food, in this process, much of the value a whole food brings to our body is lost. In come addicting taste profiles and calorie density, without the accompanying nutritional quality and fullness (the fiber content of a whole food, which makes us feel satisfied longer, tends to get stripped by processing). Processed foods will light up the reward centers in our brains, but are more likely to have a neutral or negative impact on our body, because our body has to digest a bunch of chemical gunk it wasn’t designed to take in.

That’s not to say that one is good and the other is bad, or that you should never have processed snacks. The encouragement here is to find and focus on loving those whole foods that love you back. My favorites are bananas, sweet potatoes, avocados, peanuts (and peanut butter made just with peanuts), salmon and dark (I’m talking 95% dark here, for me personally – which means there is almost no sugar) chocolate. Without human interference, these whole foods pack a nutritious punch that the body can digest easily, and they are tasty AF. So, they feel good to eat. They love you back, in taste and energy.

What whole foods do you love most? How does you feel when you eat those? How do you feel when you eat processed/fried food?

PS I DO NOT work for Whole Foods… nor am I promoting them =)

Is This Healthy? Making Healthy Food Choices

Is This Healthy? Making Healthy Food Choices

By Jonathan “Quiggy” Quigg

 

            Often we want a black and white answer to this question. Yes or no. But the truth is, there are numerous factors that go into whether or not something is healthy. And the final answer is unique to each individual. What is “healthy” for you, may not feel so “healthy” to another. So, I encourage this point of view: don’t look to what others assign to be healthy or unhealthy, find out for yourself. I hope to inspire this way of thinking in these weekly caf-blogs.

           

            Of the many parameters that go into the relative healthiness, we can look at things such as portion size, sourcing, macronutrient content, level of processing, added sugar content, etc. Of perhaps greater importance is our relationship to our food. How does it make us feel? Physically? Emotionally? Mentally?

 

            If the food we are eating makes us feel sluggish physically, mentally, emotionally, can we say it contributes positively to our health? Only you can know. Start to pay attention to your relationship with food, and how it makes you feel while eating, and after. I suggest that what’s healthy for you is about finding what makes you feel good, gives you energy and feels/tastes good to eat. Start to play with that and see what comes up. This is a self-experiment practiced with curiosity, not judgment. So whatever you notice, treat yourself with kindness and let yourself learn more about what healthy means to YOU.

 

Quiggy’s Bio:

 

Quiggy, a certified life coach, has worked with weight loss/management programs for six years now. He struggled with obesity and his relationship with food and dieting as a teenager and has been on a long journey to better understand the intricacies of the human relationship with diet, movement, health and well-being.

Is This Healthy? Making Healthy Food Choices

By Jonathan “Quiggy” Quigg

            Often we want a black and white answer to this question. Yes or no. But the truth is, there are numerous factors that go into whether or not something is healthy. And the final answer is unique to each individual. What is “healthy” for you, may not feel so “healthy” to another. So, I encourage this point of view: don’t look to what others assign to be healthy or unhealthy, find out for yourself. I hope to inspire this way of thinking in these weekly caf-blogs.

            Of the many parameters that go into the relative healthiness, we can look at things such as portion size, sourcing, macronutrient content, level of processing, added sugar content, etc. Of perhaps greater importance is our relationship to our food. How does it make us feel? Physically? Emotionally? Mentally?

            If the food we are eating makes us feel sluggish physically, mentally, emotionally, can we say it contributes positively to our health? Only you can know. Start to pay attention to your relationship with food, and how it makes you feel while eating, and after. I suggest that what’s healthy for you is about finding what makes you feel good, gives you energy and feels/tastes good to eat. Start to play with that and see what comes up. This is a self-experiment practiced with curiosity, not judgment. So whatever you notice, treat yourself with kindness and let yourself learn more about what healthy means to YOU.

Quiggy’s Bio:

Quiggy, a certified life coach, has worked with weight loss/management programs for six years now. He struggled with obesity and his relationship with food and dieting as a teenager and has been on a long journey to better understand the intricacies of the human relationship with diet, movement, health and well-being.

Hardest Changes to Adjust To: Saying Goodbye to Mommy and Daddy

I think we may all agree that our parents drive us crazy 99.9% of the time. We think that no one understands the anxiety and stress we have been under as we approach move in day. But believe it or not, as much anxiety and nervousness we may think we have, our parents probably have five times as many.

Think about it, their baby boy or girl is off to college. They’re off to explore living with new people, trying new things, and balancing rigorous schoolwork. For some of us, we may be 20 minutes away, 6 hours away, or even all the way across an ocean. Its normal for them to feel scared, worried, concerned for their baby girl or boy.

On move in day, that will be the day they “cut the cord.” They’re agreeing to let you make your own choices and trusting that you will take advantage of the great (and expensive) education that you are now presented with. When they try to unpack your clothes for you, make your bed, or try to introduce themselves to everyone in your suite… let them. As much as you think this new change will affect you, remember how much this will also affect them. It is their last time doing this for their baby.

As the day goes on, and it comes time to say goodbye, remember that it is okay to cry when you say goodbye. You don’t have to keep it together all the time. I promise you no one will make fun of you because everyone will be feeling the same way. But after you cry your goodbye’s remind them that you will call when you get a chance and that you will make good choices.

As the days go on, take advantage of all of the events that Trop has scheduled for us. They’re meant for us to meet new people and make the transition to a new lifestyle on our own easier. But when you get down time, make sure you send a text to mom reminding her how much you love her or remind dad of how much those talks he gave you before coming here came in handy.

I promise you that everything will be okay. If you find yourself missing mom and dad too much, remember that in a few short weeks (Thanksgiving) you will be back into their arms, enjoying mom’s homecoooked meals, and still getting lectured just like before!